• traffic
  • drivers/driving in general
  • influencer/clique-y culture
  • based too much on connections/social media/clout
  • gas prices
  • the dating scene
  • flaky and shallow people
  • expensive drinks/food/lines
  • high cost of rent/housing/taxes
  • how far everything is from each other
  • people aren't genuinely kind
oct 13 2020 ∞
oct 21 2020 +
  • teacher's assistant at chinese school (summer job)
  • office assistant at ACI (senior year high school, summer)
  • volunteer english teacher in taiwan
  • writer at college newspaper
  • editor at college newspaper
  • intern at los angeles magazine (summer internship)
  • intern at circa (summer internship)
  • intern at eater (semester internship)
  • intern at ktla (semester internship)

after college

  • freelance writing
  • assistant at abc news
  • reporter in arizona
  • reporter in idaho

note: most of my college internships were gotten after applying to over 100 places

jul 18 2020 ∞
aug 3 2020 +
  • failed relationships
  • difficulties you have finding a guy
  • how much it sucks being single
  • any bad life experiences you've had (or are having)
  • family drama
  • your lack of a social life
  • your flaws, things you suck at
  • your dissatisfaction with your current life situation
  • your struggles with depression, a disability
  • how much you hate your job
  • how much you hate your friends, co-workers
jul 3 2020 ∞
jul 8 2020 +
  • how to murder your life
  • free gift with purchase
aug 21 2020 ∞
oct 15 2020 +
  • the dead girl | melanie thernstrom
  • the house of mirth | edith wharton
  • the bell jar | sylvia plath
  • girl interrupted
  • the unfortunate importance of beauty
jun 30 2020 ∞
jul 8 2020 +
  • Fitness, health, sense of style/dressing
  • Emotional wellness (past traumas dealt with, receiving/surrendered mindset, feeling positive, methods in place for dealing with hamstering)
  • Having found purpose/sense of meaning (could be education, checking off a goal you’ve wanted to fulfil, volunteering, community)
  • Communication skills (good listening skills, body language, articulation, being well-read in areas of interests)
  • Decent support system (feminine mindset friends, close relationships with friends and/or family members). Be kind to everyone, especially other women.
  • Finances (the ability to support oneself, clearing of debt or plan in place to clear debt)
  • 1 or 2 Hobbies (for yourself, not for a guy)
jul 3 2020 ∞
oct 15 2020 +

social/new media

more serious media

big companies

  • Hearst
  • Conde Nast
  • ABC
  • NBCUniversal
  • Buzzfeed
oct 10 2017 ∞
jun 2 2020 +
may 19 2015 ∞
may 18 2019 +

https://www.reddit.com/r/selfimprovement...

  • hair
  • skin
  • clothes
  • facial expressions
  • appropriate amount of eye contact
  • body language and posture (way more important that most people think)
  • fitness / body shape in general
  • smell
  • "swagger", how you compose yourself and stride
  • conversation
  • appropriate amount of attention and interest displayed in tone
  • very important is not placing them with too high or low worth in your life. Too clingy or distant is probably the biggest reason sparks die.
  • not too slow fast pitched voice
  • charisma and how eloquent you are
nov 13 2018 ∞
oct 15 2020 +