got married in april 2016 - ended up going with good food, city hall ceremony, and a friends BBQ six months later. all good moves!

obviously, this is provided i even have one...but in the event some weird fucked up fairytale shit ends up going down, the following would be nice:

• one of my friends to DJ
• mix CDs as favors
• good food
• a bounce house, arcade or other activity set up so my guests are not bored
• photobooth
• mom and dad to both walk me down the aisle
• no strapless dress (unless i am in ridiculous shape)

if i am feeling spontaneous:

• i am eloping to london
• i will notify my immediate family to come join me
• we'd have a reception to celebrate back in the states

if i have giant sums of money:

• wedding at grace cathedral
• cable car rentals to take guests to the great american music hall, or maybe bimbo's