the way this is phrased sounds more like "general things you could do for me," but I'm meaning it to be about potential beaus

• ask me to "go steady" instead of to "go out" with you!
• love kids. want them at least as much as I do.
• be yourself. don't do things for show.
• be open minded.
• talk to me even though I make it hard sometimes. that sounds really dumb, but guys don't really ever do that to me.
• get me out of my comfort zone, but know what is too much for me.
• have dreams, and actually try to reach them. be passionate and proactive.
• love everything I make you. and maybe even want me to teach you stuff!
• don't like football.
• like to read rather than watch TV. or, TV watching is okay, but just don't have it on all. the. time. appreciate the silence. and when we have kids, choose playing with them over watching TV or really, almost anything else.
• play the accordion.
• write letters. or be all Keatsian.