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  • Don't be clingy.
  • Don't overwhelm him, guys spook easily.
  • Don't act jealous.
  • Don't make HIS life, YOUR life.
  • If he doesn't make it exclusive, DON'T stop dating other people.
  • Don't stop going out with your friends just cuz you wanna spend time with him.
  • Don't be TOO available.
  • Don't talk too much about other guys with him.
  • Be a little mysterious. Hold back detailed information and only elaborate when he asks you things specifically. Keep him guessing.
  • Pick and choose your battles.
  • Don't sweat the small stuff, learn to let go.
  • Don't discuss marriage and kids too soon, plot and fantasize quietly.
  • Don't discuss the topic of sex too soon, he will label you as easy and will never consider you as serious girlfriend material.
  • Win over his friends, his family, and his pets and he will follow suit.
  • Never put up with any crap and tell yourself and believe that you don't need him and that he can be easily replaced.
  • Offer to pay for things occasionally, it shows him you aren't a gold digger and that you're an independent woman that doesn't need a man to support her.
  • But when a guy offers to treat u, let him. Guys like to feel like a provider and like they are needed. If you pay all the time he might feel emasculated.
  • If you aren't living together don't see him on consecutive days. Give him time to miss you and show him that your life doesn't revolve around him.
jan 20 2010 ∞
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