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β€Ί it's-a me! πŸ”Ž

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bookmarks:
a ~ travel (current daydreams)
JJ wishlist (New and old releases)
honeybee autobio (discoveries in my 29th year)
valeyvonne video games (computer (a-k))
video games (computer (l-z))
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basic care.

  • drink a glass of water
  • eat
  • brush teeth, do skincare, brush hair
  • change into comfy/clean clothes
  • take a shower
  • get some fresh air
  • let the sun in
  • regulate temperature
  • go to sleep

senses.

  • eat delicious meal/snack
  • take a long, hot shower
  • smell favorite perfume
  • listen to calming white noise, cat purring, etc
  • wash face with cold water
  • look at aesthetic images
  • watch asmr/slime/soap cutting videos

purpose.

  • write a to-do list
  • learn something new (or plan to)
  • do a hobby
  • clean up the apartment
  • do housework
  • work out / go jogging

community.

  • make plans with friends
  • make friends online
  • talk to strangers online
  • play an online game with others
  • send nice (anonymous) messages online

comfort.

  • watch comfort youtube channels (gmm, gg, coldmirror, ...)
  • listen to comfort songs (comedy, jonas brothers, top, ...)
  • listen to an audiobook / podcast
  • watch a comedy movie
  • watch an animated movie
  • retail therapy
  • play a dumb mobile game
  • do something nostalgic. ➜

feelings.

  • write into diary
  • meditate
  • practice gratitude
  • cognitive behavioural therapy ➜
  • grounding technique (5 things per sense)

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how are you feeling?

  • lost.
    • make a to-do list
    • make plans with friends
    • look at new year's resolutions
  • alone.
    • put on youtube videos or podcasts
    • join an online community
    • text friends
  • unwanted.
    • make a list of received compliments
    • 3 things i'm proud of / like about myself
    • read sweet comments on my website
jul 25 2025 ∞
jul 28 2025 +