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  • current goals overall.
    • ✱ be kinder, even when behind people's backs.
    • ✱ improve overall health (mental, physical, etc.)
    • ✱ lose 30 pounds
    • ✱ participate in hobbies more (photography, coding, reading webtoons, working out, notion, watching tv) & less doomscrolling.
    • ✱ quit all nervous tics (nail biting, scratching, hair pulling)
    • study Japanese and Korean where i can read and write comfortably again.
    • study Spanish where I can speak comfortably (I read and understand comfortably, but I cannot speak it well).
  • things to cut down or get rid of entirely.
    • ✱ distracted eating, unhealthy eating, disordered eating
    • ✱ my anxiety (especially my social anxiety...)
    • ✱ oversharing information about my life
    • ✱ perfectionism / inability to work on teams
    • ✱ "bad" talk / gossip / complaining / cussing / speaking before thinking
    • ✱ judging others
    • ✱ social media use
    • ✱ sugary drinks / unhealthy processed foods
    • masturbation / porn watching
    • my unreasonable anger
    • ruminating, allowing myself to spiral without a plan to stop it
  • things to make more time for.
    • ✱ learning languages
    • ✱ enjoying bonding time w/ family & friends
    • ✱ hobbies (photography, coding, etc.)
    • ✱ soul-searching (meditation, journaling, counseling)
    • eating intentionally
    • prayer, bible study, church attendance
    • sensory stimulation, non talking therapy, breathwork
    • yoga, dance, other forms of exercise
  • things to work on.
    • ✱ developing healthy coping mechanisms
    • ✱ balance in life
    • ✱ building relationships
    • ✱ building routines
    • ✱ positive self-talk
    • ✱ voicing my opinions w/o being scared
    • fruits of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.)
    • listening > talking
    • my prayer life
    • sticking up for myself & others
jun 11 2024 ∞
nov 8 2024 +