personality:

• humor
• optimism
• clean & organized
• curious & always wants to learn more
• intelligence
• can sing or dance
• nerd about tv & movies
• good/sensible with money
• cares about appearance (beauty and fashion)

appearance (in men):

• curly hair
• brown eyes
• brown/dark (or salt-and-pepper) hair
• large lips/mouth
• stubble or beard, mustaches
• body hair (especially stomach)
• dad bod or tall and lanky or jacked. i love all
• glasses
• expressive eyebrows
• height doesn't matter

appearance (in women):

• soft body
• long, blonde hair
• medium bust size
• average height
• nice nails