inspired by emi of course.

• organized in their life & living space
• good with money & mindful about purchases
• careful about their own appearance & grooming
• always kind as a default, you don't have to earn it
• no black-and-white thinking or overgeneralizing
• does not buy into trends just because they're trends
• has a good sense of humor; doesn't just parrot memes
• always eager to learn more; never satisfied with what they know
• always eager to have new experiences; not scared to try new things
• problem-solver; likes to solve puzzles & find solutions
• has a strong rule about never lying, not even white lies
• an appropriate level of confidence in themselves
• charismatic and unafraid to talk to people; a good talker
• makes you feel important & listened to & treasured
• reliable; can be trusted with tasks without being reminded
• book smart, street smart, or just knowledgeable
• always wants to be better & improve themselves
• not a procrastinator; gets things done that need to get done
• doesn't care about social norms/rules; only cares about being real & kind
• doesn't take themselves too seriously; can take a joke
• doesn't let people walk all over them; stands up for their rights
• has no concept of 'cringe'; is unapologetically themself
• is skilled (not 'talented') in something they care about
• cares deeply about some things; is passionate about their interests
• not an 'i don't know' but an 'i don't know yet' kind of person
• takes care of their basic health (hydration, getting enough sleep, etc)
• not afraid to go against the stream & say their real opinion
• has clear goals in mind & works hard to reach them
• always questions cultural ideas & the status quo