mine:
- my response to normalization of mental illness
- TW! my thread about people defending abusers
- TW! my thread about rape and consent
- my thread about black lives matter riots
- stop calling mentally ill, chronically ill, and neurodivergent people "lazy." what looks like laziness to you is actually pain, overload, or rest. our limits are different to yours. learn to use compassion instead of judgement. (x)
- "abuser denies allegations of abuse" yeah and liars deny being liars, what's your point? (x)
- there is no wrong way to have a body. read it again.(x)
- while it is true that survivors are more than our trauma, it can still feel like that's all we are - especially when triggered. anyone who isn't willing to accept that and pushes us to "get over" it is not worth holding space in our lives for. we deserve better. (x)
- TW! being in a relationship with someone does not mean you can demand sex from them whenever you want, even if they're not up for it. that goes for anyone of any gender. your partner does not owe you sex. (x)
- bmi is not only inaccurate, it's dangerous, and bmi calculators for children are particularly evil. no wonder kids are developing eating disorders and body dysmorphia from such delicate ages. (x)
other:
- every time you doubt yourself, darling, remember all you have survived. (x)
- avoid people who are offended by your boundaries. (x)
- i love the expression “to be loved on purpose” so much. to be loved by someone who sees you, really sees you, in all the ways that you’re good & hurt & angry & lost, and still chooses you. not by accident, but a conscious choice made every day, over and over again. (x)
- this thread about "being the bigger person"
aug 29 2020 ∞
dec 3 2020 +