mine:

• this thread about asexuality and sex positivity
• this thread about the harms of aspec exclusionism
• this thread about how aspec people are inherently included in the lgbtq+ community
• this thread regarding aspecphobic lies peddled by exclusionists
• this thread on how ignorant and cruel it is to use the term "personality disorder" in place of "jerk"
• i hate how "toxic" has become a buzzword. some use it to mean "disagreed with me once", others use it for straight up abusive relationships. pro tip: don't downplay the dangers of abuse by referring to it as "toxic behaviour". don't conflate abuse with petty feuds. (x)

other:

• a step back doesn’t mean you’re back where you started. you’ve already made progress, step-backs don’t negate that. you have a lot more knowledge now than when you started, and that makes it much easier to keep going. (x)
• growth sometimes means going backwards but dealing with it differently (x)
• you deserve grace. speak kindly to yourself. (x)
• "getting over" trauma is not a one-time choice we make. it's a matter of redesigning our life to realistically deal with the effect of what happened to us. it's a series of choices and adjustments we make every day, so that life becomes livable and enjoyable again. (x)
• self-validate. appreciate all of your growth. when you love yourself you stop needing people to like you. (x)